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bamba
Sweden
401 Posts |
 Posted - 05 May 2006 : 12:37:52
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Gambiabev, I dont care the least if there is consensual sex between older tourist women with younger gambians. Young Gambians are reacting to poverty imposed mostly by the status quo, they have to survive. What I loathe is older tourist men utilizing the poverty of helpless gambian boys and girls. Strange enough, they are mostly tourist men.
On the subject of a Somalian, in UK for a better life, placing his rape deires ahead of the treatment of them-- the possibilities are in the Uk to get him out of such a sickness, he should be deported upon commiting such disgusting crimes. Looking for help should come before commiting crimes, especially in a country where help is available. I wouldnt like my wife or daughter to be raped, even if the rapist is sick, anyway. |
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 05 May 2006 : 13:47:29
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hi must address some issues,
twinkly with some societies rape is to do with gender, they see it as a right and women have no where to go, think house girl situation. It is not terrorism.
Some of the westerners I have met are unhappy because of their personal life at home, they think "SHIRLEY VALETINE" in Gambia. If they sorted ut home life they woul dot have the attitude towards gambians they have. IT IS NOTHING TO DO WITH POLITICS.
Bamba I use the term unhappy/happy because that is what it is.
I stayed at a hotel in Cape point and one danish man was "running away from a bad divorce", that is not political, he had to go back and face his situation, he came to Gambia with too "NEGATIVE" baggage. |
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kassma
334 Posts |
Posted - 06 May 2006 : 09:27:21
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Originally posted by gambiabev
'of course it was a white male'.........
It is true MOST violent crime in the west is done by MEN....but as to the colour of the man??????? It is USUALLY POOR men...in some areas that will be white and some it will be black.
In Uk this week there has been alot of publicity to violent crimes committed by illegal Arfican immirgants (Somalians in the main). Our home secretary is in danger of loosing his job over it.
So colour isnt the issue..gender is..and mans attitude to women. We SHOULD be safe to walk the street and go where we like......
the reason why i said of course is because people usually commit crimes against their own people and it was a white female that was attacked. and plus random stuff like that, really, its hard for me to imagine a black person doing random stuff like that. another thing, its a white campus and a black person, male or female has enough racial issues to deal with without adding more racial issues. |
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gambiabev
United Kingdom
3091 Posts |
Posted - 06 May 2006 : 09:40:16
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'its really hard for me to imagine a black person doing random stuff like that'
Oh Dear...you need a BIG reality check!!!  Maybe in Gambia most people wouldnt do awful random acts....but in UK cities it is common place. You need to take off those rose coloured specs...black men have committed some terrible crimes too......not just whites. |
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kassma
334 Posts |
Posted - 06 May 2006 : 10:19:04
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Originally posted by gambiabev
'its really hard for me to imagine a black person doing random stuff like that'
Oh Dear...you need a BIG reality check!!! Maybe in Gambia most people wouldnt do awful random acts....but in UK cities it is common place. You need to take off those rose coloured specs...black men have committed some terrible crimes too......not just whites.
of course i know black men have committed terrible crimes - men period continue to commit awful crimes against women and i don't support or condone it no matter the race. however, in the situation in school, it's generally agreed on that that was something random that a white person would do. however, news flash!, the school newspaper just wrote that the girl, white female, who reported the beating was lying. she had through herself in the bushes and hit herself enough to cause bruises then called the police and report the "crime". i'm not trying to be racist, but really, i don't think a black female would do that; throw herself into bushes then hurt herself for no reason. |
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kisley
United Kingdom
214 Posts |
Posted - 06 May 2006 : 11:57:19
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"the girl, white female, who reported the beating was lying. she had through herself in the bushes and hit herself enough to cause bruises then called the police and report the "crime". i'm not trying to be racist, but really, i don't think a black female would do that; throw herself into bushes then hurt herself for no reason"
You are not trying to be racist? - Hmmmmmm. I apologised last time when I thought i may have misunderstood your posting on "light skinned women", - now Im thinking "was I right to apologise"?? How can you so stupidly generalise - sorry it may amaze you but I, as a white female am not in the habit of throwing myself into bushes and hurting myself for no reason, or doing similar silly random acts. (although I have been known to hide money in my washing machine - totally forget its there - turn on the washing machine - and when its on its last cycle glance into the machine and notice shrivelled notes being spun around the machine ). What if i came out with a statement such as "dark skin equals ugly", and "black women are capable of doing stupid things, not like white women because they are better then that". You would be a bit disgruntled wouldnt you? I think most people would be. But thats exactly what YOU have said and suggested in this post and another posting about females of a certain colour. Of course I dont know you as a person, and unfortunatly I again may be misinterpreting what you are saying - but your last statement as we say in the Uk really took "the biscuit". |
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toubab1020
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Posted - 06 May 2006 : 12:48:02
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quote:
Originally posted by kisley
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"the girl, white female, who reported the beating was lying. she had through herself in the bushes and hit herself enough to cause bruises then called the police and report the "crime". i'm not trying to be racist, but really, i don't think a black female would do that; throw herself into bushes then hurt herself for no reason"
You are not trying to be racist? - Hmmmmmm. I apologised last time when I thought i may have misunderstood your posting on "light skinned women", - now Im thinking "was I right to apologise"?? How can you so stupidly generalise - sorry it may amaze you but I, as a white female am not in the habit of throwing myself into bushes and hurting myself for no reason, or doing similar silly random acts. (although I have been known to hide money in my washing machine - totally forget its there - turn on the washing machine - and when its on its last cycle glance into the machine and notice shrivelled notes being spun around the machine). What if i came out with a statement such as "dark skin equals ugly", and "black women are capable of doing stupid things, not like white women because they are better then that". You would be a bit disgruntled wouldnt you? I think most people would be. But thats exactly what YOU have said and suggested in this post and another posting about females of a certain colour. Of course I dont know you as a person, and unfortunatly I again may be misinterpreting what you are saying - but your last statement as we say in the Uk really took "the biscuit".
I do agree with you Kisley,but as women and men tend to discuss things in their own gender groups reports may be slanted in order to reflect the general feelings within the gender group, as the saying goes " Men are from Mars Women are from Venus" |
"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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bamba
Sweden
401 Posts |
Posted - 06 May 2006 : 18:17:19
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Jambo, u said "misery likes company". What I can make out of it, u are miserable so run to miserable blacks. Why cant u solve your misery where it's imposed rather than go blacks who have nothing to do with your misery? U always have personal reasons why u run to blacks.
U are too ordinary to change blacks and their ways, be rest assured of that. U dont join people to change them especially when u are a victim of your own ways. U can call it "unhappines" in Gambia or whatever u want to. No-one invites u to join our unhappiness. |
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toubab1020
12312 Posts |
Posted - 07 May 2006 : 01:47:00
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| Hi Bamba,sorry,I cannot really understand where you are coming from,please don't think I am critising your posting about Jambo's views but your comments seem a bit strong. |
"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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bamba
Sweden
401 Posts |
Posted - 07 May 2006 : 02:47:29
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I dont understand your question either about where I come from. Have u not been part of Bantaba long enough to know where I come from? There is nothing wrong with people racially teaming up for common gains, we live in a racially polarized world. My comments, whether strong or not, are not out of the blue. Do your home work properly and read thru Jambo's postings to see what warranted my comments.
U dont run to people u consider "unhappy with themselves" for sanctuary, do u? How often do u see postings from European listmembers in Bantaba about buying properties and land in Gambia? Gambians in Sweden and in Europe are not allowed, despite qualifications and salaries, to procure apartments even near alcaholic Swedes or Europeans. Am sure it wouldnt bother u, your skin colour is above that.
Postings on tribalism and racism will continue to flow in no-matter how painful, the truth is not always sweet.
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kiwi
Sweden
662 Posts |
Posted - 07 May 2006 : 08:02:31
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How often do u see postings from European listmembers in Bantaba about buying properties and land in Gambia? Gambians in Sweden and in Europe are not allowed, despite qualifications and salaries, to procure apartments even near alcaholic Swedes or Europeans.
Bamba, sometimes I donīt really understand what you saying. In what country are not Gambians allowed to procure apartments and what have alcoholic Swedes to do with it? |
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toubab1020
12312 Posts |
Posted - 07 May 2006 : 09:38:31
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quote:
Originally posted by bamba
I dont understand your question either about where I come from. Have u not been part of Bantaba long enough to know where I come from? There is nothing wrong with people racially teaming up for common gains, we live in a racially polarized world. My comments, whether strong or not, are not out of the blue. Do your home work properly and read thru Jambo's postings to see what warranted my comments.
U dont run to people u consider "unhappy with themselves" for sanctuary, do u? How often do u see postings from European listmembers in Bantaba about buying properties and land in Gambia? Gambians in Sweden and in Europe are not allowed, despite qualifications and salaries, to procure apartments even near alcaholic Swedes or Europeans. Am sure it wouldnt bother u, your skin colour is above that.
Postings on tribalism and racism will continue to flow in no-matter how painful, the truth is not always sweet.
DO WHAT!! (I quote your words below Bamba)
"there is nothing wrong with people racially teaming up for common gains"
I totally disagree,The Nazis are surely an example of "racially teaming up" and I am certain that that is not what you meant. |
"Simple is good" & I strongly dislike politics. You cannot defend the indefensible.
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twinkly
United Kingdom
190 Posts |
Posted - 07 May 2006 : 11:02:39
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quote:
Originally posted by bamba
Gambians in Sweden and in Europe are not allowed, despite qualifications and salaries, to procure apartments even near alcaholic Swedes or Europeans.
Postings on tribalism and racism will continue to flow in no-matter how painful, the truth is not always sweet.
I don't want to involve in the rest of this topic, but this really interests me Bamba.Could you explain please?
It is obvious that most Gambians don't have the financial status to do all these things in our country,that we can do in your country.
But what would happen if a foreigner HAD the means and opportunities?He would simply not be allowed?
That would just be yet another sad fact of our injustice world |
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gambiabev
United Kingdom
3091 Posts |
Posted - 07 May 2006 : 11:17:44
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In Uk money talks...if a Gambian had the money they could do whatever they want with it..no restrictions. |
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bamba
Sweden
401 Posts |
Posted - 07 May 2006 : 11:51:44
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Money talks here in Sweden too. Am not talking of filthy rich foreigners; am talking of foreigners with salaries that can pay rentage for them to live where they want to live. Housing agencies in Sweden go after who one is first, then comes ones financial capabilities. The sad thing is, housing agencies employ excluisvely Swedes and give them instructions to discriminate foreigners, especially blacks. There are TV programmes off and on in Sweden about such a system of racial discrimation in this country. Bantaba listmembers residing here know this as well as I do.
It's sad that we live in a world where money rather than justice talks. Who can throw the first stone? |
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