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Santanfara
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 Posted - 13 Sep 2009 : 20:25:15
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We all know life is hard sometimes and things get rough. but for people close to you, your own blood/love ones, what wouldn't you do to make them comfortable and happy?
i can't think of any, only commiting felony and sinning, but all else i will do...
just a thought.
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Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran
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faderabraham
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Posted - 17 Sep 2009 : 20:53:21
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myselfe i would do as i have done ...give LOVE-RESPECT-SUPPORT-and work hard for there needs.
if NECCESARY I WOULD DIE FOR MY OWN BLOOD & FAMILY |
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Santanfara
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Posted - 18 Sep 2009 : 08:03:58
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Originally posted by faderabraham
myselfe i would do as i have done ...give LOVE-RESPECT-SUPPORT-and work hard for there needs.
if NECCESARY I WOULD DIE FOR MY OWN BLOOD & FAMILY
Am with you Faderabraham. thanks |
Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran
www.suntoumana.blogspot.com |
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kayjatta
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Posted - 18 Sep 2009 : 08:20:23
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quote:
Originally posted by Santanfara
We all know life is hard sometimes and things get rough. but for people close to you, your own blood/love ones, what wouldn't you do to make them comfortable and happy?
i can't think of any, only commiting felony and sinning, but all else i will do...
just a thought.
What did you mean by "family" Santafara? Your wife and kids, or as in the Gambian sense 'everybody else'? |
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jambo
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Posted - 18 Sep 2009 : 17:14:32
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what would you not do for your famil, big question, i ws thinking about this questions and came up with this.
one do not do anything illegal, the repercussions will last a life time, think about it, is it worth it. If the police catch up the shame lasts for generations, financial they are paying for a long time, also open this door and other situations follow.
two financial, put your self in debt, go without something, make financial scarifices, not worth it, again can take a long time to recover, paying school fees for ever and seeing no return , buying a car, that they cannot afford,
three, put yourself in physical danger, i mean travel from one place to another to sort out family issues, i met someone who had travelled twice from UK to sort out a family domestic and he promised never again, the arguments, disputes, time, not worth it.
four time management, that relates to all the above, if you had to do it again, a lot of people say no because of the time vs cost situation, you might not be there, but phones, travel costs, money transfers all take time, look at the costs involved.
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Santanfara
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Posted - 18 Sep 2009 : 18:43:15
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Very brillaint points Jambo. one shouldn't do what he/she is not capable of, just do your best and stick with family no matter what.
Kay, family here i mean wife and kids. they are the number one. some blokes abandon their wife when they quickly fall out of love. the issue is, love may end, but stay around and make sure the wife and kids get the appropriate support before moving on. even after that, the kids welfare should be sorted out.
extended family come second for me, they have others to worry about them, after immidiate family, then one focus his/her lense else were. this is not to say, our father and mother should be subordinated beyond acceptable levels, becus we are their immidiate family. |
Surah- Ar-Rum 30-22
"And among His signs is the creation of heavens and the earth, and the difference of your languages and colours. verily, in that are indeed signs for men of sound knowledge." Qu'ran
www.suntoumana.blogspot.com |
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kayjatta
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Posted - 21 Sep 2009 : 07:56:41
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| Thanks for the clarification Santa. Happy Eid. |
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