Too much heedless toward sexuality inclinations,(men+women) why all that beguilement to one self while you can have it in contentedness of your self and to Allah?.
Oh mankind let us not betray our self, there is too many way that our Master has provided for us so why not taking a perceptions.
Those are His words.
He said:
1-Made tempting to people is the love of lusts, women, and children, heaped up hoards of gold and silver, choicest horses, cattle and crops. Such is the enjoyment of the life of this world, but the everlasting and best abode is with Allah Q 3:14
2And there is no blame on you if you make an indirect proposal of marriage to widowed women during their waiting terms, or keep it concealed in your hearts for Allah knows that you will think of them, but do not make any secret engagement with them, except to speak of righteousness Q 2:235
3-And the woman of the house he was living in began to tempt him and totally locked the doors on them, and she said: ‘come take me he said I seek refuge in Allah, he is my lord who has given me a good abode Q.12:23
4-So when she heard about their sly talk, she sent for them and she gave each one of them a knife and she sad: Coe forth Joseph before them; so when they saw him, they were so carried away in admiration for him that they cut their hands unknowingly and they said God forbid! This cannot be human he must be an honorable angel Q 12:31
5-It is lawful for you, on the nights of fasting to approach your wives, they are your garments and you are their garments; Allah knows that you were betraying yourselves, but he has turned to you and pardoned you, so now approach them and seek what Allah has ordained for you Q 2:187
6-If you fear Allah, speak not in an affected tone, so that he in whose heart is a disease may yearn; but tell honorable words (with clear meanings Q 33:32
7-And from HIS signs (miracles) is that HE created for yourselves spouses, for you to find serenity with them and he has set between you affection and mercy Q 30:21:
Jabir ben Abdallah a young companion of the holy prophet s.a.s who was in his early twenties or late teens at that time narrated
while they were returning from a (ghazwa) holy battle with Rasool s.a.s. started driving his camel fast, as it was a lazy camel a rider came behind him and bricked his camel with a spear he had with him, and then his camel started running as fast as the best camel you may see.
The rider was the Prophet s.a.s himself. He said, what makes you run in such a hurry? then he replied that he is a newly married.then prophet s.a.s said, did you marry a virgin or a matron? he replied. a matron. He then said: Why didn’t you marry a virgin so that you may play with her and she with you?’ He said, his parents passed away leaving 9 sisters with him, so he pitied a virgin for taking that huge responsibility of taking care of his 9 younger sisters’ He said s.a.s God bless you. And HE gave him the permission to precede the rest of the army, and advised him by saying, but make it so that you may enter Madina at night for your wife to get ready for you.
The Rasool s.a.s. also said,
a five practices are basic instinctive characteristics: circumcision (male) shaving pubic region, clipping the nails and cutting the moustaches short.and when one of you (means Muslim men) sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.
Describing the events of an actual intercourse, prophet Mohamed s.a.s said, marriage is not complete until she tastes the honey of her husband and he tastes her honey.
Mentioning the equality in needs and interests and also in the ways of having fun, satisfaction and fulfillment.
Othman ben Madhoun said, Rasool Allah s.a.s refused his permission for sexual abstinence and he added, if he had approved, we would have had castration done.
The purpose of refusing permitting sexual abstinence is the refusal of prohibiting what Allah permitted, but are people who will welcome all kind of intercourse just for the moment of contentedness while buried the prohibition. that's why HE says whoever claims himself to be a good follower of mine, let him have a spouse for his own,
One time when HE was going to the Holy battle,he said to the group of Muslim members of his army that whoever is engaged to marriage and did not yet marry, let him not come with me nor follow me, Brothers and Sisters let us not misjudge our self by not taking a notice of those great advices From the All the Mighty and HIS Holy Rasool s.a.s.
Wasallam.
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