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Dalton1

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Posted - 17 Nov 2007 : 14:25:33
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(Courtesy of Gainako)
http://www.gainako.com/My_Homepage_Files/Page1.html
Compatriots,
where are we on the above? the ugly pla is surfacing its angry smile time and again. Reading the point newspaper, its a shame that in our current century, we still have capable criminals to do the act of baby dumping.
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"There is no god but Allah (SWT); and Muhammad (SAW)is His last messenger." shahadah. Fear & Worship Allah (SWT) Alone! (:
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kiwi
Sweden
662 Posts |
Posted - 17 Nov 2007 : 16:13:25
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Baby dumping is indeed a very cruel act. As you rightly say, you cannot erase a sin by committing another sin – so why do you suggest that the mother should take her own life? As far as I know, to commit suicide is one of the worst sins according to islam, so bad that you even do not deserve a proper burial. What do you suggest should be done wit the body of the unhappy mother – dump it into a gutter?
The problem is the fact that a pregnancy out of wedlock is regarded sinful and shameful. The mothers should be accepted by the society as any other mothers, then there will not be need for baby dumping.
Anyone calling a baby out of wedlock a bxxxxxd should be whipped one hundred times.
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Dalton1

3485 Posts |
Posted - 18 Nov 2007 : 04:07:14
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quote: Originally posted by kiwi
– so why do you suggest that the mother should take her own life? As far as I know, to commit suicide is one of the worst sins according to islam, so bad that you even do not deserve a proper burial. What do you suggest should be done wit the body of the unhappy mother – dump it into a gutter?
Kiwi,
I thank you for your critical & honest observation. The way you commented on the quote below makes a lot of sense to me. As you can tell that's a an 'emotion' button at work. All the same, the context goes with the sentence also, denoting we rather see that happen than seeing babies killed. The choice of words and phrasing in that context needs a critical look.
quote: Gainako: If you are that in a shame, you should take your own life and spare a new born baby
I also agree with you that society should welcome such victims of teenage pregnancy with open hands. Until such a time, then societal common talk keep plying everywhere, sending many others through an ordeal of shame, embrassment, deformation of character, loss of class/respect, fingerpointing, isolation, et cetera.
what's the take of religious schoolars and societal pillars? hopefully, we will hear their parts.
thanks Kiwi, & keep the candles burning. |
"There is no god but Allah (SWT); and Muhammad (SAW)is His last messenger." shahadah. Fear & Worship Allah (SWT) Alone! (:
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kiwi
Sweden
662 Posts |
Posted - 18 Nov 2007 : 07:40:27
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Dalton, thanks for your sensible response. |
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jambo

3300 Posts |
Posted - 19 Nov 2007 : 09:19:11
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MORE SEX EDUCATION IS NEEDED, IF THE GIRLS NEW WHAT HAPPENED WHEN THEY HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE THEY WOULD THINK TWICE BEFORE DOING IT. ALSO LOOK AT SOME OF THE AMLES INVOLVED, SOMETIMES PEOPLE THINK IT IS A YOUNG GIRL ANDHER BOYFRIEND NOT ALWAYS THE CASE, a lot of older men who should now better have young innocent girlfriends and lead them astray.  |
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mbay
Germany
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Posted - 19 Nov 2007 : 09:48:43
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jambo, you had it all! they are very few explanation here, is it because of or culture(a shame?) |
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Dalton1

3485 Posts |
Posted - 19 Nov 2007 : 13:35:24
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I agree with you both. The sugar-daddies are a mesh. Mostly, they are ones running away from the shame. |
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