Inez, u dont get everything in life on a silver plate. Use the trial and error method. There is always someone for someone. The major task in life is where to find that someone designed for u.
Bamba 'a strategic search plan' sounds very romantic!
I prefer the hit and miss approach...... if I meet someone and like them why not spend some time together and see how it goes???
Plans dont seem to work when it comes to dating...... I have been divorced since xmas and was intent on being alone for at least 12 months........ i have met more nice men since I decided that than ever before in my life!!!
In the process of meeting these nice men you might get stuck with someone along the path, who knows. Freedom of choice as a means to an end, what can be more strategic?