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jambo
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 Posted - 11 Jun 2006 : 16:02:42
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sitasungo, I do not think you are toiling the soil,  i think you are a rich man with many wives and a nice life!! |
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serenata
Germany
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Posted - 11 Jun 2006 : 20:16:53
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Sitasungo, I wish you the best of all women, a real queen who knows that she has a real king at her side. I am sure you'll be a good husband and have a good marriage.
I'll try to be a man in my next life. Maybe then I understand that all the nasty things I said about men in my present life are not true at all...
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Sitasungo
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Posted - 11 Jun 2006 : 22:07:04
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Sister,
Thank you for that wounderful prayer.Amen!
But I can assure you,when the next world comes and you become a man,you will be disappointed.We men are responsible for two third of the worst atrocities on earth and we always drag our sisters along.We are responsible for every briutality,hatred,harm and evil mongerings on this beautiful planet.
Please don't try to be like us in the next world.We bread evil.The only best side of us is feminine which we take from our mothers.Women are ten ribs while we men are nine ribs.We are not complete.Thats why God would never allow us to conceive Babies.
God safe women from the evil grib of men.You know teaching a man you only teach one but teaching a woman you teach the world.Power lies in women.
Jambo,
I wish you are right.However I do not intend to mary more than one.I also belief that if I do,I cannot be equally fair in between them and I don't want to be beating my elder wife simply because she has quarreled with the new beautiful bride.Like I see some men treating the new bride as a queen and the liar,witch,and evil monger is always the first one.like some call the new bride.."suma houl bi".. "Nna manyoo or Ntooring labang".."Jong ba joo".Though they sometimes refer to the first as "Ah woo bur kerr" Suu tiyoo".. " juuma gal leh" yet still all attention is forcast on the young and beautiful new B. who lies deep inside the heart ot Aorta.
Sitasungo
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 13 Jun 2006 : 11:36:15
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situsango, how sad  that you think your new wife is beautiful and new, and the other wife is" " what exactly. Shame on you. Each woman is beautiful. I think you should stay single a bit longer. 
Secondly would not the second wife have her own house? , you will be rich enough to buy her a compound.
if you observe other men doing certain things and saying things that you do not like, DON'T BE LIKE THEM.
Thirdly would not the first wife have a say in the matter of a second wife. Or did I get this wrong.
make a wise decision otherwise the women could become friends and gang up against you. WOMEN RULE 
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serenata
Germany
1400 Posts |
Posted - 13 Jun 2006 : 14:05:01
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jambo, of course I cannot speak for Sitasungo, but I think you mixed his opinion with what is said and done in general. And let us not be hypocrites: In a non-muslim, monogamous society you also find a lot of parallel 'marriages', where the 'new' partner (mostly a woman) is valued higher than the old 'bore'. In our societies, this usually leads to divorce, with a lot of very ugly fights (money, the children, the house, etc.).
This is totally out of topic now (if my memory serves me well, we started with racism in Germany), but it's ok  |
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Sitasungo
77 Posts |
Posted - 13 Jun 2006 : 17:26:47
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Thank you so much sister serenata.
Bro.jambo,I never said I was married and never as well said any thing concerning my wealth.Infact I was answering your question/comment.
As our sister rightly said,the topic was about the status of Black people in Germany.How ever as most topic leads to another issue due to certain comments by participants, topics have to move from one trend to another.No harm as that is the beauty of Bantaba.
Finally not religious but most monogamous people have their wives in one home.However some rich men do have homes for each wife.
The issue is how equally treated are they by their husband?
Does he give each wife a decent marriage life?
How united can he bring the family together?
In his heart of hearts are all the wives equal in love by him?
I have these set of questions but never said for one minute that I was married or not .Infact I was paraphrasing the issue and want you to understand it from that angle.But you missed the whole point and thought I was talking about my self.
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MeMe
United Kingdom
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Posted - 13 Jun 2006 : 17:56:57
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| Sorry but I was under the impression that, according to Islam, a man may only take another wife/wives if he can treat and care for them equally? Does that not answer your question? |
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MeMe
United Kingdom
541 Posts |
Posted - 13 Jun 2006 : 17:59:01
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| Oh, yeah ... and I would suggest that Germany is as safe as any other country for black people (or indeed people who are not German?)... Indeed any country can be 'unsafe' for its inhabitants if we're being totally honest here .... |
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jambo
3300 Posts |
Posted - 13 Jun 2006 : 20:17:36
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okay lets get this straight yes it has strayed of the topic, but I never mentioned you were married but made a comment on your topic. It has all got lost some how, it was mean to be humourous, look at what I was answering.
It is easy to go off the Bantaba subjects. Situsango, no offense. read the replies again. I did you think you were talking about youself. "cannot be equally fair in between them and I don't want to be beating my elder wife simply because she has quarreled with the new beautiful bride". your comments are what caught my eye and i answered that.
Let me move on, let us go back to the original topic. Or start a new one.
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